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Moving With Kids

Tips on how to move with kids

You're readying for a move and you have a million things to take care of: closing the deal on your new house or apartment, completing paperwork and legal documents, anticipating your new job, and scheduling a pick-up, but it is important that you don't neglect your children. Take some time to discuss the upcoming events with them. Children take their cues from their parents, so make sure that you stay upbeat and positive throughout the entire moving process. Help them see the move as an exciting new beginning.

Be sure to announce the move in a completely positive way. You might talk about how beautiful the neighborhood is and how good the schools are. Bring your children to the new house, if you live close enough that it is possible to do so. Otherwise, positively describe the new house. Find out what your children's favorite things are in your current home, and then try to re-create them in the new home. Keep your children actively involved in the process. For instance, don't just promise that they can decorate their new rooms, but take them shopping for paint, bedspreads, carpets, and other items that will make the experience more fun and comforting.

Remember, although you may have lived in your current residence for just a few years, the same few years can be half the lifetime of a seven- or eight-year-old, and can include all the years he or she can remember. Your current residence may be the only home your children have ever known, where they feel safe and comfortable. It may be the center of your children's world.
When is the best time to move?
Unfortunately, there is no "best" time to move with your children. Unless you count moving only after you've discussed it with your children. Get their input about the timing of the move. Try to avoid making your word the law.
It'll be very hard for your teen if you decide to relocate during their senior year of high school, right before they graduate.

For your younger children, a move during the school year will allow them to immediately go from one social setting into another. They'll be recieving more attention from classmates and the teacher as the "new kid." On the other hand, a summer move may allow your children to become better acclimated with their surroundings. This way they won't be thrust into unfamiliar territory both at school and at home.
Your children may not like the reasons for the move, but with good communication, they'll understand them.

Whenever you feel that things are spinning out of control, find a diversion! Take a walk around your new neighborhood, go on a day trip out of town with your family, or take your family to a movie. Whatever diversion or outlet works best for you, this is a good time to engage in it! Remember to take one "move" at a time.

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